Trust is the most valuable commodity in a relationship.  When one person in

relationship breaks that trust, it can be devastating.  Even so, 20% of men and

13% of women report that they have had an affair according to the General

Social Survey (GSS).  That’s 1 out of 5 men and more than 1 out of 8

women.  That’s a lot.

 

The signs of infidelity

There’s a feeling in your gut.  Something tells you that your spouse is

seeing someone else.  You are so well connected that you can tell

that something is different.  There are some common behaviors that

many cheating spouses exhibit that are common.  Almost all cheating

spouses will exhibit one or more of these behaviors:

 

• Guarding the cell phone – If your spouse guards their cell phone with

       their life, won’t tell you what the password to their phone is or at least

       let you look at the phone, you better better hire a private investigator 

       from Hawkeye Intelligence.  This is the number one indication that 

       something nefarious is going on.

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• Change in phone habits – If your husband or wife is on their phone more than usual

      and doing a lot of typing and/or picture taking and you can’t get a reasonable explanation as to why, there may be a new person          they are talking to.  Especially, if they are doing this in combination with guarding the cell phone.  Keep in mind that there are              apps that delete messages (text/pictures/video) just a few seconds after they are sent so if your spouse tries to show you those          apps to convince you that nothing is going on in those apps, be suspicious.

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• Strange numbers on the cell phone bill – Many cell phone providers provide a list of the incoming and outgoing calls and texts a person makes on the bill and many are available in real time, online.  If you see a number you don’t recognize on that list and especially if they seem to be communicating with that number a lot, you may want to further investigate.  A private investigator from Hawkeye Intelligence can help you with that.  We may be able to find out who that number belongs to and use that information to gain information about what sort of relationship your spouse has with that person and whether or not they are doing more than just having a friendly chat on the phone.  Something to look for is lots of communication with one or more numbers and if you can get a look at the phone, those conversations or phone calls are deleted.  Sometimes a cheating spouse will have the phone number of the person they are seeing listed in their contacts but list the number as a different name to throw you off in case you check.

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• Strange phone calls – If they receive lots of calls from a “blocked” number or a “private” number, there may be cause for concern.  Also, if they get calls at strange hours and this is not their normal habit, you may want to call Hawkeye Intelligence to further investigate.

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• Sudden increase in attention to physical appearance – Before cell phones, this was the number one indicator.  This can take many forms, some of which you may not have thought about:​​

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• • Sudden weight loss

  • Change in personal grooming habits (he shaves his face or she shaves her legs more often than usual; shaving places they normally don’t)

  • More attention to what they are wearing (They may buy new clothes or get dressed up more often than usual when going places without you); who needs to get dressed to the nines to go to the grocery store?

  • Buying new lingerie (especially if they hid it from you)

  • New hair style

  • Wearing makeup or cologne/perfume more often (especially when they are not going to be around you)

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• Unaccounted for time – Most people can tell you where they were or what they were doing at any point in their day.  If they have gaps of time that they can’t account for or if you have information that they weren’t where they say they were, this is a sign of infidelity.  Pay attention to times around holidays, birthdays, after returning from a vacation, etc.  Oftentimes, the person having affairs with married people want the married person to carve out some time to spend with them on special days or after a long absence.

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• Change in work hours – If your spouse is suddenly needing to stay at the office after hours or goes in earlier than usual, they could be having a workplace affair.  They could also be meeting someone before or after work.  Lunch break affairs are common too.

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• Change in spending habits – If you see strange purchases at strange places such as department stores, jewelry stores, flower shops, restaurants, etc. and your spouse can’t provide a reasonable explanation, a receipt, or an item they purchased, they may have used your money to purchase something for someone else.  If it’s not close to a gift buying time and this is something that your spouse doesn’t regularly do for you, they may be having an affair.

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• Not wearing wedding ring – Oftentimes a man or woman who has an affair with a married person will get jealous when the married person they are seeing wears their wedding ring.  Sometimes a cheating spouse hides the fact they are married from the person they are seeing.  In either case, it is easy for the cheating spouse to forget to put their wedding ring back on before going home.  If you notice that your husband or wife has developed a new habit of forgetting to put their wedding ring on, especially if they left the house with it on but returned without it, give Hawkeye Intelligence a call.  We will investigate and find out the truth.

 

The purpose of investigating infidelity

If you suspect your husband or wife is having an affair and they are displaying any of these behaviors, call Hawkeye Intelligence.  We will get you the information you need to know the truth whether you plan to file for divorce or not.  If you do plan to file for divorce, all evidence obtained during the investigation with be acquired with court admissibility in mind whether you plan to go to court or not.

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Put your suspicion to rest. You deserve piece of mind. Take a deep breath. We will take care of you. Hawkeye Intelligence will get the evidence you need. Call or email now. 

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